That's how my kids call me . Daddy Nalds by Dana. Daddy Nwalds by Ardi . I love to hear them call me this way, anyway.
On June 15, the world will celebrate the Father's Day. By this time, you could see a lot of posters and flyers with "Father's Day" greetings and promos. You would see a line that says, "You Are The World's #1 Dad!"
However, on June 15, I will not be with my family. I will be traveling to Orlando, Florida for our Global Conference. I will surely miss them. But fatherhood can't be separated by distance. I'm thankful to God for good memories I have with my kids as I desire to be a "perfect" father to them, though it's far to reach and I will surely never reach it. It's all by His grace that I can father my kids well. And it takes a daily surrender of my heart to Him so that I will continue to reflect a Father's Love to them. This journey is indeed full of learning.
This afternoon, after our ASEO team prayer time, I had a "date" with my 5 years old daughter, Dana. How did it go? Well, because I don't have a car this week, we walked from our house to the gate of the subdivision, holding hands. From there, we took a tricycle ride going to SM Masinag. She accompanied me for a bank transaction, going through a standing-long line. My daughter's wish every time we go out is as simple as buying a P7 chocolate ice cream in cone. Then she whispered to me a box of doughnut. So we went straight to Dunkin Doughnut and proceeded to the food-court. I had my usual fresh lumpia merienda when I'm at the food-court. That's my friendly diet. As we sat, we just had our cute conversation with her update about a next door friend Abby, her schooling next week and Ardi's naughty actions towards her. She expressed, "sana family date din ulit," though we are always going out as a family every week. That was one of the intimate "dates" I had with Dana. We have lots of good memories as "father and daughter."
Photo taken by Dana this afternoon.
I had also my "high-tempered" moments with her. One of those was when Divine was convincing her to take her medicine syrup for her stomach pain because of high acidity. She didn't want to take it despite her mom convincing her, explaining all the benefits she could get. I was impatient at that time. I scolded her at the top of my voice and forced her to drink her medicine. Because she closed her mouth, unwilling to take it, it spilled over her neck down to her shirt. I was angry towards her and brought her to the CR, forcing her to drink the medicine. She was crying out loud and with a convicting words she repeatedly said,"Daddy, why are you doing this to me? I'm your daughter. God doesn't like that." My heart was like pierced by a sharp sword, but I chose to be firm commanding her to drink her syrup, opening her mouth and pouring in the medicine that still flowed out from her unwilling mouth. I left her at the CR. Divine came in to gently talk to her, explaining that she should obey her dad and take the medicine for her complete healing. When all these peak of emotions came down, with Dana's spirit okay, I came to her and asked for forgiveness for what I did wrong to her - shouting at her, hurting her mouth when I forced her to open it and hurting her feelings as well. I hugged her and she hugged me back. She said, "I forgive you, daddy." That was a dramatic moment between her and me.
I surrendered my heart to God to give me a more understanding, patient, loving heart towards my children.
This journey of fatherhood reminds me of how much loving our Father in heaven truly is.
For this is the way God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. -John 3:16
As much as I care for my children, thinking on how to provide the best for them- food, clothing, a home to cherish love for one another, love for God above all, good education and many to mention- our Father God knows our every need, even those we haven't expressed to Him.
Remember this message in Matthew 6?
25 "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Isn't there more to life than food and more to the body than clothing?
26 Look at the birds in the sky: They do not sow, or reap, or gather into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you more valuable than they are?
27 And which of you by worrying can add even one hour to his life?
28 Why do you worry about clothing? Think about how the flowers of the field grow; they do not work or spin.
29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his glory was clothed like one of these!
30 And if this is how God clothes the wild grass, which is here today and tomorrow is tossed into the fire to heat the oven, won't he clothe you even more, you people of little faith?
31 So then, don't worry saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear?'
32 For the unconverted pursue these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
33 But above all pursue his kingdom and righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
34 So then, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own.
May this Father's Day celebration remind us of our Heavenly Father who knows about and provides for our every need.